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5. Not questioning:
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8. Believing everything you are told:
Yes, it is true. Not everything you hear in this world is the truth and not everyone's version of the truth is accurate. Just because information is written or produced in a graph, does not make it valid. If what you are told "smells funny", is illogical or does not follow what you have been informed before, ask for independent support. Back [link widoczny dla zalogowanych] to the basics: Ask, ask, ask.
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