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Inasmuch as some people may be quick to respond to issues that require their effort, time and money, our natural tendency as humans is to remain silent and sooth ourselves with the belief that there are enough able and willing people in the world to make a difference without us. But our silence, especially when it is against our innermost urge to act, is often more lethal than the actions of the actual perpetrators of evil. According to Bruno Jasienski, "Do not fear your enemies. The worst they can do is to kill you. Do not fear friends. At worst, they may betray you. [url=http://www.rtnagel.com/louboutin.php]louboutin[/url] Fear those who do not care; they neither kill nor betray, but betrayer and murder exist because of their silent consent." This is why the focus of The Exhortation this month is to exhort you to examine your level of responsiveness to, firstly, your innermost desire to grow and better yourself; secondly, the needs of those around you; and ultimately, the desires of our Maker.
Using the popular Abraham Maslow's five hierarchies of needs as a framework, we are no doubt quick to respond to our physiological/biological needs, safety/security needs, love/belonging needs, and status/esteem needs. However, many of us barely respond to The FIFTH Element, which is our need for self-actualization - a term coined by Kurt Goldstein, meaning the instinctual need of humans to make the most of their unique abilities and to strive to be the best they can be. According to Maslow, self-actualizing people embraces the facts and realities of the world rather than denying or avoiding them; they are creative and spontaneous in their ideas and actions, and interested in solving problems, especially the problems of others - often a key focus in their lives; they feel closeness to other people, and generally appreciate life; they have a system of morality that is fully internalized and independent of external authority; and finally, they judge others objectively without prejudice.
Furthermore, in a 1949 Psychological Review, self-actualization was defined as "the intrinsic growth of what is already in the organism, or more accurately, of what the organism is". Basically, we are designed to continuously strive to be the best we can be, rather than settle for mediocrity, so that when we finally reach the end of our journey on earth, we can confidently say, like Apostle Paul once said, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have kept the faith". According to an old Indian saying, "When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice". Pericles also noted "What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others."
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As a Personal Effectiveness Coach, I have the opportunity of working with a diverse group of people to enhance their personal effectiveness, marriages, parenting, careers, businesses, finances and spirituality; and it remains evident that in most cases, they know exactly what to do in order to conquer their obstacles. But like many of us, they often remain silent to even their innermost urge to make things happen. Smokers, for example, and others with unhealthy and detrimental habits often have consistent urges within themselves to quit these [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/tiffany/]tiffany outlet[/url] habits, but yet never initiate or continue the process. They agree to the infertility, and even dangers of these habits, but yet really do nothing about eliminating them. Despite their innermost urges, some of them still [url=http://www.mxitcms.com/abercrombie/]abercrombie milano[/url] put up strong oppositions when been lovingly urged by others to quit these bad habits.
So, what is your innermost being requesting of you today? Apostle Paul indicated ages ago that the acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. What is yours? Is it smoking, eating too much (of unhealthy meals), consuming too much alcohol, [url=http://www.moncleroutletosterblade.com]moncler outlet[/url] procrastinating, selfishness, tardiness, laziness, inconsideration, harshness, favouritism, dishonesty, lies, pride, fraud, fornication, pornography, lust, and the like? In a world where it has become convenient to be silent to our own innermost urge to act, thus creating a shortage of present day heroes and heroines, many have become complacent even in what matters most to them. We have urges to take the necessary steps to enhance ourselves, mend a broken relationship, maintain bliss in our marriage, spend quality time with our children and families, and grow in our spirituality, but yet do nothing at all with the hope to somehow not have a broken marriage, a pregnant teenage daughter, or a soon-to-be-dad teenage son. How are you responding to that drive within you to advance your career, grow your business, or be more disciplined in your finances, eating habits, and spirituality? A good gauge of your responsiveness is reflected in the number of people that really look up to you in these areas. As William Jennings Bryan said, "Destiny is not [url=http://www.gotprintsigns.com/abercrombiepascher/‎]abercrombie soldes[/url] a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing [url=http://www.sandvikfw.net/shopuk.php]hollister outlet sale[/url] to be achieved".
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Therefore, I exhort you to employ your strengths and talents in order to enhance yourself and enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. Make the necessary effort to control your weaknesses, rather than letting your weaknesses control you. Pursue and use valuable information to enhance your effectiveness in every area of your life, while objectively measuring your progress as you go. Make every effort to promptly respond to the invitations, messages, voicemails and emails of those who took the time to reach out to you. And like Jesus Christ did when he offered to pay Zacchaeus a visit without being asked because he perceived a need, seize opportunities to meet the unexpressed needs of those around you. Instead of remaining silent, rejoice with [url=http://www.mnfruit.com/airjordan.php]jordan[/url] those who rejoice, and mourn with those who mourn, for our living is determined, not so much by what life bring to us as by the attitude we bring to life; not so much by what happens to us as by our reaction to what happens. In the words of Goethe, "The things that matter the most must never be at the mercy of the things that matter the least".
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